Adult Counselling

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Personal Counselling
Helping you get the BEST from your life.
Your issues might include self confidence, anxiety, worry, OCD, depression, grief, fears, sadness, bereavement, eating issues, body image, relationships, sexuality, gender, addictions, trauma, abuse, chronic or terminal illness.

In the first session at Fairfield Counselling, you can expect to talk about the issues that have brought you to counselling. We will talk about the goals and dreams you have for yourself and together we will work towards achieving them. Through respect, encouragement, and providing you with the skills to overcome difficulties, Viv Ray can assist you to live the life you wish for yourself.

Couples and Family Counselling
Addressing your specific family, relationship, and parenting issues in a calm and supportive environment.

Issues may include:

  • Communication
  • Jealousy
  • Power struggles
  • Finances and money issues
  • Intimate partner violence
  • Extended family issues
  • Step families
  • Separation and divorce issues
  • Affection
  • Lack of respect within the relationship
  • Fear within the relationship
  • Difficulties reaching agreement
  • The effect of children on the relationship
  • Parenting problems
  • Sexual issues
  • Trust issues

When working with couples, Viv will discuss with you and your partner whether it will be most helpful to come separately, together or a combination of both.  

Therapeutic approaches :
Viv will work with you to discover which approach works best for you.

Cognitive Behaviour Therapy or CBT has been researched extensively and found to be very effective. It works by looking at the interaction between thoughts, feelings and behaviour. You will learn to catch the thought you are having and examine and make changes to it in order to then affect your feelings and behaviour. You will gain knowledge and learn skills about the issue that has brought you to counselling.  In this way you can address fears and anxiety, negative thought patterns, behaviours that are causing problems and much more.

Mindfulness is the practice of focussing on the present moment without judging yourself. The brain is constantly active – thinking, ruminating, worrying, calculating, remembering. It is rarely calm and rested. By focussing on the breath and by relaxing the body, Mindfulness can effectively assist your body and mind to relax. There have been many clinical trials on Mindfulness  Meditation and the evidence shows that it is very effective for many people in reducing stress, anxiety, pain, depression and insomnia as well as other conditions.

Solution Focussed Therapy (SFT) sometimes known as Solution Focussed Brief Therapy (SFBT) uses practical, goal directed counselling. It is usually short term and uses strategies built on your past successes to achieve realistic goals. Rather than delving deeply into problems, SFT focuses on goals and solutions to reach your desired result.

Narrative Therapy focusses on your values, skills, beliefs and abilities. It is a non- judgemental, respectful way of working that aims to assist you to reduce the problems and the effect of those problems in your life. Narrative Therapy involves a particular way of enquiring about your issues. It examines the stories and beliefs that shape one’s life. You, the client will take a greater role in choosing the direction the counselling takes. Together, you and the therapist will address issues using a Narrative Therapy framework in order to reach a happier, healthier life.

Group Counselling & Workshops
Children of LGBTI Parents, Self Protection for Children and Families, Increasing Self Confidence, Positive Communication, LGBTI issues.

“I came to counselling because I was experiencing anxiety in many areas of my life. As I opened up about my relationship, I came to see my partner’s behaviour towards me was not ok. I am so grateful to Viv for working slowly but surely with me. My anxiety has gone and I am back to the happy, confident self I was all those years ago.Ellen